I haven’t been in China long, but I’ve had the pleasure of
seeing some great gaffes on the part of Westerners who are trying, in vain, to
establish relationships with Chinese people in professional meetings. They hear
that Chinese culture is strongly interested in ‘gifts’, so they fret over who
they should give the golden pens they brought along from home. Then they try to
provoke conversation across the table and end up just talking to fill the void
of silence when they receive no response. Afterwards, they try to make
conversation at lunch about how they decided to be vegans at age 19 ‘because
eating another living creature is wrong’ and wonder why their Chinese
colleagues are appalled.
Sitting in a particularly boring meeting like this the other
day, I decided to write a list of suggestions for anyone contemplating a first
time introduction into the Chinese professional world. The primary purpose of
this list is to ensure I don’t forget my own learnings here, so if it happens
to useful to anyone else … bonus!
- Don’t expect to be able to hold an informal dialogue about working topics. For some reason I can’t fathom, Chinese people expect the format of any professional meetings (aside from those over a meal) to be presentation party A - Q&A - presentation party B – Q&A and so on.
- At the end of any speech or presentation, there’s usually applause. Something niggled at me for a long time about this applause that I couldn’t quite pin down, and then it occurred to me … it’s too short! Chinese audiences only clap for maybe half the length of time that you would expect an audience at home to do. I didn’t even know we had applause rules, but there you go.
- Use a powerpoint presentation. Call it a ‘ppt’.
- Use pretty, simple pictures on your ‘ppt’, especially graphs.
- USE SIMPLE LANGUAGE. EVERYWHERE. I cannot stress this enough. Someone tried to use the word ‘Orwellian’ in a comic way and it met a lot of blank stares, obviously. Chinese people will not ask you to explain if they don’t understand your English, because it’s embarrassing for them. So don’t be an idiot, speak slowly and use words that are easy to understand rather than jargon. This also applies to any written documents and the ppt.
- Don’t assume your Chinese counterparts will have any background on your topic, even if it’s their field. Academia in China is … different to the West, and the differences are felt throughout the business world. I once saw a director of an institute with decades of academic research under his belt say that he couldn’t understand how agriculture produces greenhouse gas emissions.
- Assume that their views are China-centric (this is definitely not something that only occurs in China) and assume that they will repeat Government language/ideas.
- This should be self-evident, but avoid criticising (or appearing to criticise) the Chinese government, culture, food or popular ideologies in China.
- Use lots of figures and numbers to gain respect, while still trying to make a point.
- Ignore the people walking in and out of the room, sleeping on their desks or taking pictures with their huge Nikon cameras. They don’t realise you think this is rude.
- Bring some kind of sweet food if you can, even if you’re not the host, and make sure tea is available if you are.
- Always introduce important people at the start of a meeting and use highly respectful forms of address. An important Chinese guy I know once addressed a group of PhD candidates from another country as ‘your excellencies’ (ok, maybe this was a bit of Chinglish, but it gives you an idea of what is expected!).
- Use excessive language of thanks and imply prestige where you can.
- Gift giving is a part of Chinese culture, but you don’t have to give gifts if you don’t want to. It's much more important that you pick up the bill for the food if you are the ‘host’, although a small gesture (e.g. a trinket) will always be appreciated.
- Providing a lunch or dinner is necessary for almost any meeting. Try to arrange the meeting to be before lunch and then have a banquet – you’re likely to get more interest and appreciated feedback from participants. A dinner is even better, but there are a whole set of social rules you’ll have to navigate, and they are likely to try and get you ridiculously drunk.
- Avoid saying ‘no’ directly in response to a question. Instead, think like a politician and ignore the actual question by diverting the discussion onto a tangent.
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